Where Cupid meets AI — real love begins with intention.
UMdating is a marriage-first matchmaking project for people who want to build a home, not collect matches. We focus on values, life readiness and emotional maturity — then our human team verifies every profile by hand.
Free to use. No monthly subscription, no paywall to talk, no selling your data. We built CupidAI to create more healthy marriages and families, not more swiping.
CupidAI Engine snapshot
Values & readiness alignment: High
Values
Family, loyalty, faith and life goals aligned above 82%.
Readiness
Emotional maturity and commitment readiness scored high.
Safety
Human-verified, low risk of scams and fake identity.
Made for people who want a life partner, not just a date
UMdating is built for serious, marriage-minded people who want stability, shared values and the ability to build a home together.
Busy professionals who are serious about commitment
You don't have time for games. We filter for emotionally mature, stable partners who are ready to build a home, not just chat.
Starting again after divorce or a long relationship
You know what matters now: kindness, respect, shared values and emotional safety. UMdating prioritizes people who are ready to try again with maturity.
Family & value-oriented people planning for the future
You care about marriage, kids, faith, culture and lifestyle fit. We match on core beliefs and ability to build a family and a life together.
Our AI Cupid Engine looks at your values, life stage, emotional readiness and long-term goals to introduce you only to people who are genuinely aligned with you.
How UMdating works
From your first answer to your first date, every step is designed to protect your time and your heart — no endless swiping, no games.
UMdating · guided path to a serious relationship
We optimize for long-term fit, not time spent in the app.
Your answers feed into our compatibility engine and human review team, so the people you see are emotionally ready, value-aligned and scam-filtered.
UMdating · Trust & Safety First
Every profile is human-verified. Every connection is protected.
We combine AI-powered fraud detection with real human moderators who review every profile. Your privacy is encrypted, your conversations are safe.
Create your compatibility profile
Answer a marriage-focused questionnaire about values, communication style, lifestyle, faith, family plans and long-term goals.
UMdating Engine analyzes fit
Our models evaluate compatibility, readiness and safety signals. Low-quality and unsafe matches are filtered out before you ever see them.
Human review & safety checks
Our team manually reviews profiles, photos and reports to keep scammers, bots and misleading identities out of the community.
Warm introductions, not endless swiping
You meet a small number of highly compatible people so you can focus on building something real, not collecting chats.
Science + human oversight for lasting matches
CupidAI is our proprietary intelligent model — co-developed with the University of Miami — blending psychology, behavioral science, NLP, graph analysis and human review. It makes long-term matchmaking scientific, trustworthy and safe.
Compatibility & values alignment
CupidAI was co-developed with the University of Miami. It blends psychology, behavioral science, and NLP/graph algorithms to assess values, communication style, attachment, and relationship readiness.
Co-developed with University of Miami experts; AI detection + human oversight; dynamic safety signal in real time.
You & your profile
Core details + values questionnaire to capture long-term intent signals.
Curated matches
AI detection with human review; anomalies are auto-blocked and escalated.
Cross-database checks and social graph anti-fraud; duplicates/suspicious identities are flagged instantly.
Why UMdating is Different
We use psychology, AI modeling and human judgment to match people who share values and long-term goals — not just short-term chemistry.
Cupid Intelligence™
AI evaluates values, communication, conflict style and life goals to connect you with emotionally mature, future-ready partners.
Human verification
Our team checks every profile photo and suspicious pattern — reducing fakes and ensuring authenticity.
Privacy by design
We collect only what we need, never sell data, and never use conversations for ads. Your relationship is not a metric.
Designed for real relationships
UMdating focuses on compatibility, emotional safety and long-term goals — not endless swiping.
Trust & Safety at the Core
We protect you with encryption, human review and AI risk detection — so your focus stays on genuine relationships.
End-to-end encrypted chat
Your private conversations are encrypted in transit. We never sell chats or use them for ad targeting.
100% human-reviewed profiles
Every profile is checked for authenticity, alarming patterns and misrepresentation before entering the community.
Anti-scam protection & transparent policies
AI-assisted tools detect scammers, spam and repeated bad actors. Our rules are written for humans — not lawyers.
Safety & integrity layer
Filters out scam patterns, inconsistent data and abusive behavior flags. CupidAI quietly protects your time, emotions and privacy so your attention goes to people who truly have long-term potential with you.
Built with purpose — not just another dating app
CupidAI was created by a University of Miami–connected team that cares about long-term relationships, family and emotional health — not about keeping you swiping forever.
- Marriage-first philosophy. Everything is designed for people who want commitment and a shared life, not casual flings.
- Values at the center. We believe shared core values are the strongest predictor of a stable, loving partnership.
- Free to use. No monthly subscription, no paywall to talk. We want more good marriages in the world, not more revenue.
- Human dignity & respect. We moderate for kindness and emotional safety. Connections should feel uplifting, not draining.
CupidAI is most successful when you no longer need us — when you're building a life with someone who shares your values and your vision for the future.
Dating apps have become crowded, noisy and exhausting — focused on growth metrics instead of genuine human connection. We wanted something different: a quiet, carefully curated space where serious people can meet, be seen for who they really are, and start families and futures together.
We'll consider UMdating truly successful when most of our users are too busy building healthy, stable relationships to log in every day.
Moments — share the life you want to build
Celebrate wins, ask for advice and let your community hold you when it's tough. Moments is a human-first feed for people on the marriage track — a place where joy is shared and hard days are met with kindness.
- Share the joyEngagements, promotions, first apartment, meeting each other's families — let people celebrate with you.
- Find supportOn the days you just need a kind word, Moments is where more hearts gather around you instead of judging you.
- Show the real youPhotos, stories, small daily scenes — authenticity helps the right person see who you really are beyond a profile picture.
Ready to find a life partner, not just a match?
Join our community of serious people. Free to join — built to last, not to keep you swiping.